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Carole is available for bi-coastal house calls, international phone consults and her current book is THE TOTAL CAT (Quill). She also sees appointments at Westside Veterinary Center in Manhattan. Subscribe to Carole's free newsletter on her website by clicking onto www.thecattherapist.com/wilbourn_way.htm
Tuesday, November 1, '05
If you have a question, please send an email to Carole. Scroll down to see my column. I can't answer
every email I receive, so please check the archives.
Your answer may be
already there.
» MY UPCOMING EVENTS
November 17, 6-7PM, Hoboken Public Library
» HURRICANE KATRINA
My prayers are with you, your families and animals who, have been struck by Katrina. My sister, Emily, husband and dog were able to leave Biloxi in time. You can help the rescue efforts for the ANIMALS with a contribution to: IDA's Hurricane Katrina Animal Relief Fund (www.idausa.org/hurricane.html), NOAH'S WISH (www.noahswish.org), and The Humane Society of the United States (www.hsus.org).
» CONTEST EXTENDED THROUGH
JANUARY
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DON'T YOU MEN WANT TO WRITE AND BRAG ABOUT YOUR CATS?
More and more men are becoming smitten with cats. They are no longer just a female or family companion. I'd like to find out from you guys why you decided to live with a cat and how your cat inspires you and makes you feel good. Click here to learn out about the new contest.
» CAT TALKCAT TALK is now available. Find out what your cat is TRYING TO TELL YOU. Click on to http://thecattherapist.com/cat_store.htm
» CAROLE'S NEWSLETTER--THE WILBOURN WAY"The Wilbourn Way Newsletter is Carole's free email newsletter, which brings you Carole's personal view on cat culture monthly. Click on to her website for more details.
» STROLL WITH YOUR CATS
There's a perfect and fun way to safely enjoy the outdoors with your
cats. Click on to thecattherapist.com and then to
Kittywalk.
» BLACK CAT BALL
Friday, Oct. 28, we all had a super time. The Ball was to benefit In Defense Of Animals and Neighborhood Cats click on
http://www.neighborhoodcats.org/
There were awards given to friends of feral cats. The stunning cat head sculpture awards were designed by Eric
Dever. I was one of the judges for the Cat Costume Contest. It was quite the event!
» TORONTO LEARNING ANNEX
My workshop in Toronto was a marvelous turn-out of cat guardians who wanted to expand and share their knowledge of cat behavior. My co-worker was Jack, a strapping, young white and gray cat. Jack was content to lap up his catnip and to receive compliments and strokes from the class. It was an informal therapy session for him and he would drift off into a lazy snooze inside his Sherpa Bag.
One of the guardians needed a solution for her now incompatible cats. The younger cat teased and tormented his twenty-years-old companion. He also ran his claws over the sofa and rugs. I explained that the younger cat was frustrated because he wanted a playmate. The senior cat was his
scape-cat because he preferred to just hang out. I recommended that the senior cat should be kept in a sunny room with all of his creature comforts and a cat-friendly heating pad when she and her husband were away from home. This way there wouldn't be any confrontations. They might arrange for someone to come and play with the "rascal" when they weren't home or they could consider the adoption of a young cat or kitten that was very cat-oriented and would live to play with their frustrated younger cat. A sturdy new scratching post would protect their furnishings.
Click on to my site
and then Carole's resources.
My first workshop in Toronto was during a blizzard. I'm happy to say that this time the weather was "the cat's meow".
»
MY BALDING CAT
Dear Carole:
My cat has been licking her stomach bare for the last couple of years. We have just moved interstate and she has now licked off most of her hair from her chest down to her legs. She has been given medication from the vet before but it has never helped. I am hoping there is a natural way to help her.
Melanie
Dear Guardian Melanie:
Poor, dear balding cat! That's no way for her to live. It sounds like she licks out of angst. You might relate such behavior to a nervous person who bites nails or relentlessly scratches his or her head or neck. Your move contributed to her angst and now her tension target has increased boundaries. Here are some treatment steps to relieve her self-mutilation or psychogenic alopecia: 1) Feed her a food that's rich in omega fatty acids or you can use a vitamin supplement to rejuvenate her skin. 2) Whenever you notice that she's about to lick or scratch, distract her with your voice or a toy. 3) Synchronize a vet visit so she can receive an injection to relieve the discomfort. 4) If she's catnip receptive, a sprinkling of nip a few times weekly will help her body to unwind and relax. 5) Sometimes 1/4 teaspoon of brewers yeast mixed in her food will nourish her skin. It's also high in the B vitamins which fight stress. You could do this once or twice daily. Some cats enjoy the taste. 6) Seven or eight drops of the Bach Flower Rescue Remedy for anxiety can be added to her water daily. You can purchase it from Whiskers, 1-800-WHISKERS or from a homeopathic shop. 7) Tell her that she's getting better and praise and stroke her.
There may be situations that you can modify if you feel they are stress provoking. You can refer to testimonials on my web site
(http://www.thecattherapist.com/testimonials.htm) for more information. My book,
THE TOTAL CAT, has a chapter on overgrooming. Maybe your cat is lonely and needs the right companion, introduced the Wilbourn Way. There is hope for her recovery but it will take time and coordination. Her deviant behavior is a symptom of anxiety that doesn't usually evaporate instantly. Good luck
»
FLOOR PHOBIC
Dear Carole,
I have a three year old cat named Cheetah. It's somewhat a miracle she is even alive. I work for a landfill, she showed up in a dumpster, it appeared as though someone tossed her there. By the time she was captured by some co-workers, she was so weak, she weighed a mere three lbs you could see and feel every bone in her body, had a frost bitten tail and an abscess. That was two years ago and since has recovered into a healthy happy cat.
However, about three weeks ago, cheetah fell ill with what the vet said was probably a virus like a cold or the flu, she had a high temperature. She became lethargic and began to hide in strange places especially those not on the ground. I was so scared I was going to lose her, she was so sick, but she recovered from that just over a week of falling ill.
This now brings me to my newest dilemma, since falling ill and recovering, Cheetah has adopted a very strange new
behaviour. The biggest of these is the fact that over the past week she's become absolutely terrified of the floor. It has gotten to the point where if I put her on the floor she
kinda dances and hops around until she finds an elevated space. I can tell by looking at her she is stressed and scared when she's at ground level, she will come down long enough to eat and use her littler box that's it. I don't understand it at all, there is no reason I can think of that the floor would upset her so much. I read one article that suggested fleas, but that is not a problem, nor is any other pest. She used to like to go out in the yard, even the ground outside seems to be a problem for her though.
Hope you can help!
Erica
Dear Guardian Erica:
Cheetah is suffering from post-traumatic-stress disorder. Her current illness triggered her residual angst of her abandonment in the dumpster and her torment. The floor has become her tension target, so she avoids it. She's become floor-phobic.
To ease and remedy this angst, the following measures should help: 1) Place a small soft rug or very fluffy towel on the bed. Feed her on this security object and praise and comfort her while and after she eats. Hang out with her for a while to reinforce the comfort. Repeat this for at least a week. 2) Move the towel or rug to the floor beside the bed. If she doesn't feel secure enough to eat here return to the bed and try again on the floor when she's very hungry. You might even brush her here or/and give her catnip. 3) Some soft background music will soothe the two of you. 4) If there's no break-through, a vet visit may be in order. Also, an anti-anxiety drug would be an option and continue to follow my behavioral tips. This recovery may take time and patience but Cheetah will slowly rally.
Tuesday, November 15, '05
If you have a question, please
send an email to Carole. Scroll down to see my column. I can't answer
every email I receive, so please
check the archives. Your answer may be
already there.
» MY UPCOMING EVENTS
WESTCHESTER CAT SHOW—Saturday & Sunday, November 19-20.
The show will take place at the Westchester County Center in White Plains,
N.Y. Show proceeds will benefit Hurricane Katrina, Animal Relief Funds and
Local Animal Shelters. I will speak at 4:00 p.m. on Sat. Click on to http://www.westchestergov.com/parks/countycenter.htm
for complete details. I look forward to meeting you there.
» HURRICANE KATRINA
My prayers are with you, your families and animals who, have
been struck by Katrina. My sister, Emily, husband and dog were able to leave
Biloxi in time. You can help the rescue efforts for the ANIMALS with a
contribution to: IDA's Hurricane Katrina Animal Relief Fund (www.idausa.org/hurricane.html),
NOAH'S WISH (www.noahswish.org),
and The Humane Society of the United States (www.hsus.org).
» CONTEST EXTENDED THROUGH JANUARY -
DON'T YOU MEN WANT TO WRITE AND BRAG ABOUT YOUR CATS?
More and more men are becoming smitten with cats. They are no
longer just a female or family companion. I'd like to find out from you guys
why you decided to live with a cat and how your cat inspires you and makes you
feel good. Click here to learn out about the new contest.
» CAT TALK
CAT TALK is now available. Find out what your cat is TRYING TO
TELL YOU. Click on to http://thecattherapist.com/cat_store.htm.
» CAROLE'S NEWSLETTER--THE WILBOURN
WAY"
The Wilbourn Way Newsletter is Carole's free email newsletter,
which brings you Carole's personal view on cat culture monthly. Click on to
her website for more details.
» STROLL WITH YOUR CATS
There's a perfect and fun way to safely enjoy the outdoors
with your
cats. Click on to thecattherapist.com
and then to Kittywalk.
» FERAL CATS:
This is a copy of a letter sent to the Governor of Minnesota on
behalf of feral cats.
We got Franci when she was 7 months old last year and lived in a deep ravine by
a friend's house who was feeding her. She is a great cat and good to us and the
house. She favors my husband whom she sleeps next to and follows all around.
Although best to take ferals when kittens, they can be domesticated even when
they're adults with the right treatment. If they have been out there a year,
then it takes a year to domesticate them. Maybe you could stop the
shooting of feral cats. It would certainly make your state more wholesome
and less redneck as it is now. How does it feel to be governor of a state that
shoots cat? I've read that in Minnesota and South Dakota that it is legal to
shoot cats. Look at this angel face and tell me you allow your people to shoot
cats. What kind of a man are you?
Barbara M.
» WEIRD BEDTIME BEHAVIOR
Hi Carole!
I have a 3.5 year old neutered, male Persian Cat that has been acting weird for
the past 2 weeks. In the middle of the night, I will wake up to him push in the
back of my head with his front paws. While he's doing this, a strange gurgle is
coming out of his mouth. One time I put my hand back there to stop him and he
bit me. He NEVER bit before! He is the most docile creature there is! I also
woke up twice last week to him humping my foot (which is under the comforter)
with that strange gurgling noise. Is he sleep walking?
Thanks in advance for your help!
Amy
Dear Guardian Amy:
Sounds like your cat is having some very sensual moments. A neutered cat can
retain his sensuality. Some cats are more sensual than others. Your cat's
behavior is triggered from energy and manifested in a sensual way—related to
his sexuality.
You can help him to work out this energy by engaging him in vigorous play.
Perhaps a companion cat or kitten is the solution or you might try to arrange
compatible play dates with sociable cats or cat-friendly dogs. Make sure his
diet is nutritious. You should be able to channel this horny behavior to more
acceptable behavior.
» TAIL ATTACK
Hello. Hopefully
you can help my cat. For a couple of weeks now, my cat has been growling,
hissing and chewing on his tail. He hides underneath of the ottoman or the couch
and I can hear the growling underneath. He has become anti-social. When he does
come out, he's constantly looking over his shoulder at his tail like it isn't a
part of him. Then he'll run around trying to catch it hissing and then he'll
disappear again. Any ideas what the reason could be?
Thanks so much
Heather
Dear Guardian Heather:
Must be that something excited or frustrated your cat and now his tail has
become his "tension target". Once this behavior starts, it can become
a constant compulsion. As with your cat, he's become obsessed with his tail. The
slightest discomfort triggers his angst and his tail becomes his "tension
target".
I'll assume that he's already been neutered so his anxious behavior isn't
related to high sexual energy or angst. His anxiety may be related to some
current or even past issue that's wreaking havoc with his emotions. Try to
evaluate present and past situations that might have affected him
psychologically. If so, see if there's something you can do to rectify the
situation. 1. Perhaps some special daily private time where you dote on him.
Soft meditative background music would relax the two of you. 2. If he's a solo
cat, the right companion with the right introduction, (Refer to my book, THE
TOTAL CAT.) might please him. 3. A homeopathic remedy such as the
Bach Flower remedy for anxiety might calm his body and emotions.
You should have him vet checked to rule out any physical problem. Diet is very
important. A food allergy could also contribute to this obsessive compulsive
behavior. A collar may be needed to prevent his reaching his tail and the vet
may find it necessary to prescribe an anti-anxiety drug. Oral or injectable
medication would ease the ache and itch your cat has created. Do hope you solve
this destructive puzzle.
» FINGER CHEWS AND FOOT STUMP
Hi, I just came
across your website, it's awesome! I have
four cats but I'll just to keep this to two questions.
1. Two of my cats like to chew on my fingers and they purr a lot when they do
it, I heard it means they're relaxing but it hurts when they chew. Could it mean
something else?
2. One of my cats was born with a missing foot. The stump has becomes exposed
sometimes because he runs on it. Is there anything I could do for him? The vet
said she may have to amputate it.
Thank you so much for your time!
Ms M.
Dear Guardian M:
When your cats chew on your fingers, it does relax them because they associate
the action and feeling with their fond memories of interaction wit their mother
cat. Because chewing on your fingers can't tickle, distract them with a toy they
can comfortably and safely chew on.
So very sorry about your dear cat's handicap. There might be a prosthetic that
would protect the stump. If there isn't any other safe alternative, amputation
may be the solution.
All the best!
Tuesday,
November 29, '05
»
CAT FLAP
ANGST
My two cats who are two years old have used their cat flap for
two years now with no trouble at all. Earlier this week, I opened it in the
morning and it must have jammed either by the frost or maybe the catch (they
go out very early in the morning). When I came down, they sat outside and
refused to use the cat flap.
This morning I tried putting their noses to it and one seemed ok and went out,
the other seemed scared. They have not come back in it and sit at the back
door. I have at the moment sprayed some catnip around to calm them and tried
enticing them through with fish. However, they have both gone out through the
open 'hole' but I do not want this to be a permanent thing neither do I want
them to think the cat flap is a 'bad place'. What do you suggest to get them
to overcome this behavior?
Carol
Dear Guardian Carol:
It might have been the frost or the catch and/or there may be a lingering
scent on the flap of another animal—an interloper that's adding to their
fear.
Neutralize any residual scent on the flap by rubbing catnip on both sides of
the flap. You could also lure them through with the help of one of their
favorite toys. If they still resist, you might need to replace the present
flap with a new one.
Here's to a speedy acceptance!
» EMMA, MY FERAL CAT
Hi Carole -
I rescued a troubled feral kitten at 5 months who had been found on the
streets of San Francisco. I spent a year lavishing her with attention and
building her confidence in people. She was doing really well and although
didn't jump into my guests laps, when they came over, she was tolerant and
somewhat friendly. Always around me, she was a normal loving cat.
At the age of 3 she got sick with a bad case of bladder stones and I found at
great expense, the best hospital in San Francisco to operate on her. She spent
about 3 days in the vet hospital with top notch care. When she came home she
had a vet technician that came to the house to give her shots and medicine.
But ever since the operation, which was 8 months ago, she hisses at everyone
who is not me including people she used to be fine with. It is beginning to be
a problem. She is like Jekyll and Hyde. As soon as she hears the door close
behind a departing guest she immediately comes out of hiding with her tail
high and as confident and happy as ever. But while people are around she
hides. If they try to approach her, she hisses and bats her paw at them.
What can I do to help get her over this? I have a lot of people in my life
that want to bond with her and are getting increasingly offended by her
behavior.
Thank you for your advice!
Mira
Dear Guardian Mira:
Emma's been affected by post-traumatic stress disorder. Although
you made sure she had the best of medical care, the emotional strain and
separation anxiety (time away from you) set her back. Once again she's totally
fearful of other people. The good side is she still is close to you. That's
most important. If your friends really care about her, they will realize that
her rejection of them is triggered by fear. It goes all the way back to her
days on the street and her struggle to survive. Unfortunately, the stress from
her illness caused this early residual angst to surface.
Here are some recommendations to help your Emma to slowly release this angst
so she can accept other people:
1. Spend some time each day with Emma in your bedroom or a small cozy room.
Brush her if she's receptive. If not, stroke and tell her how beautiful she
is. Some soft background music will also help to relax her body. The more
relaxed, the more receptive.
2. At this time you should be sitting on the floor, bed or sofa with her so
that your body is also relaxed.
3. If Emma likes catnip, give her some about three times a week. More is ok,
but too much and she'll lose interest.
4. Sometimes several drops of the Bach Flower Rescue Remedy for anxiety is
calming. You could add that daily to her water or mixed in a tasty morsel of
food. 5. If Emma likes heat, you could put a cat-friendly heating pad in a
basket for her to hang out in. 6. You might want to make an audio cassette of
your voice and music that she could enjoy. You could also record through your
computer if you're a technophile. My book, THE TOTAL CAT, will give you
info. about what to record. The idea of this program is to get Emma to become
super relaxed in this environment.
After about three weeks of this repeated agenda, invite one of your most
mellow and accepting friends to enter the room. (After enter the room, walk in
slowly.) This person should not approach Emma. If Emma wants to interact with
the person, fine. It's Emma's choice. The person can stay for at least fifteen
minutes. Repeat until Emma loosens up and trusts. This will take awhile. Be
patient.
Emma's nutrition is important because it affects her feelings. Good luck!
If you have a question, please send an email to Carole. Scroll down to see my column. I can't answer
every email I receive, so please check the archives. Your answer may be
already there.
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